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03.23.16 / Liked & Linked

park jump

normal

spring daffodil

Mabrey came down with all. the. infections. late last week, so we kept things pretty chill over the weekend so she could rest. You can see how that went. Nothing keeps her down. We celebrated the arrival of spring with a trip to one of our favorite local parks. Steve met up with us after work and we played family tag. The boys were surprised to learn that I wasn’t an easy catch. Out of breath, Everett said, “I didn’t know you could run, Mom! You usually do boring stuff at the park.” Another mom sitting on a nearby bench overheard him. We made eye contact then burst out laughing. It was an unexpected, endearing moment. #momsympathy

Everett brought home a book from school about Abraham Lincoln’s sense of humor. I asked him to tell me something funny about Abe. “Well, when the ladies weren’t around, he told fart jokes.” Suddenly, Everett wants to be president.

Green buds are popping up everywhere. A random daffodil managed to survive the trauma of yard excavation several years ago. I look forward to its sunny blooms each spring. The air smells sweeter than it has in months. There’s the slightest tinge of warmth which we notice immediately upon stepping outside. I love how everything feels new yet familiar in the spring.

A few links…

*In case you’re interested, Lincoln Tells a Joke. (It’s actually a pretty fun read.)

*The rainbow rock project.

*Target mirage. Hilarious.

*No-fuss salmon cakes (from this cookbook) are a regular on our weekly menu. Everyone loves them.

*The wallpaper I ordered for Mabrey’s big girl room. (Mood board coming soon!)

green kitchenette

green kitchenette

*I love the (green!) freestanding kitchenette in this workspace.

*The best DIY house flip I’ve ever seen. (Yep, that’s an IKEA kitchen.)

*A simple solution for stashing and charging electronics in small spaces.

*A tile picture ledge in a powder room for a casual art display.

*I bought a bridesmaid dress for my sister’s wedding next month. Nothing like waiting until the last minute!

Happy spring!

P.S. – After reading through all the comments on this post, Steve felt compelled to respond. Find his thoughts at the end of the updated post.

images: 1-3) Dana Miller for House*Tweaking 4 & 5) Belathée Photography

03.13.16 / Liked & Linked

cincinnati museum center

art of the brick

big girls

Steve has been traveling quite a bit for work lately, but we were able to sneak in a quick family trip to the Cincinnati Museum Center to check out The Art of the Brick exhibit by Nathan Sawaya. It’s incredible! The creativity, time, patience and attention to detail that went into each piece are mind-blowing. Just when I thought I had seen the best piece, I was even more amazed by the next. In the end, all of it was too good for me to choose a favorite. The flying pig is a tribute to Cincinnati’s Porkopolis days. If you’re local or headed this way soon, the exhibit is open until May 1st. The kids loved it – especially the interactive LEGO playground.

Mabrey is really into cuddling tormenting Cheetah these days. Every time I turn around she’s carrying her “like a baby” which is ridiculously funny because Cheetah is HUGE. I can’t believe she hasn’t scratched Mabrey yet. She’s such a roll-with-the-punches pet.

Some links…

*Speaking of family pets…ADORABLE.

*The point is…she can choose.

*A scratch-off world map to document your travels. Such a cool idea!

*84 Lumber introduced a new line of tiny houses.

the shingled house

the shingled house

the shingled house

the shingled house

*How am I just now discovering this cool lil’ blog?!

*I’ve always thought IKEA shoe cabinets would look less generic with a DIY wood top. They do!

*Giddy about Paula’s new midcentury home. Phase 1 is coming along!

*I love this white + walnut kitchen.

Happy springing forward!

images: 1-3) Dana Miller for House*Tweaking 4-7) Caitlin at The Shingled House

Fair warning: You’re about to commit to a very winded post on the search for an ideal big kid bed. There are few images and lots of rambling. Words > pictures. What I’m trying to say is…you will have to use your imagination. Coffee might help. Or wine.

Reath Design

It’s official. Mabrey is a big girl. She potty-trained on her own over a year ago but didn’t stay dry through the night on a regular basis until recently. I learned the hard way with my first that making a deal out of potty-training before they’re ready just makes more work for me. So I was happy to let her figure out the nighttime thing on her own, and she did just that. My only incentive to her was a “big bed” once she showed me that she could stay dry through the night consistently. Well, the time has come.

Part of me is a teensy sad. I love her room the way it is but her needs are changing. She barely fits in the IKEA GULLIVER crib / toddler bed. It had a good, long run (nearly four years!) but she really needs something larger. The dark pewter on the walls is still one of my favorite hues of all time. It’s so conducive to sleeping and napping (oh naps! where have you gone?!) which makes it perfect for a nursery but I think it’s time for a change. Mabrey is spending more and more time in her room during the day playing, and she’s developed such a spunky personality. I’d love for her room to reflect these latest developments.

Of course, I can’t be sad for long because, HELLO, I get to tweak her room! I’ve started a very rudimentary moodboard and I’m already giddy about the possibilities. I’m channeling my inner Mabrey and having fun with some of the details. But before I get too carried away, I want to share my ideas for the obvious – the big bed!

Mabrey requested bunk beds. Of course. Her brothers have bunk beds. But her brothers also share a room that’s substantially larger than hers. Sure, bunk beds would fit in her room but that’s about it. It would essentially be a bunk bed closet. With her room being so small, I’d like to keep most of the furniture low to create breathing room. I gently broke the news to her and told her we’d find something she liked. She took it in stride.

Right off the bat I had several stipulations regarding the new bed: 1) Twin size. Her ~9′ x 9′ room can’t accommodate anything larger. 2) Extra sleeping space. It would be great to incorporate another sleeping surface into our three-bedroom home for sleepovers or overnight guests. The boys have a separate, pull-out trundle under their bunk that has come in handy over the years. 3) Clean lines. Not only do I like the look, but straight lines take up less space physically and visually – a necessity in a small room. 4) Not a bazillion dollars. Don’t get me wrong. I’ve spent more time than I care to admit drooling over Oeuf and Dwell Studio kid beds, but I just can’t stomach the price tags when I know there are other viable options out there for half the cost (or less). I’m more likely to splurge on items that will be used by everyone in our main living areas. Beds in kid rooms? Notsomuch. Which is probably why, currently, all the little people beds in our house hail from IKEA. We’ve had great luck with them. So it should come as no surprise that IKEA was the first place I browsed.

I looked at the TARVA and considered using a SVÄRTA trundle underneath it. The setup was most definitely budget-friendly but I wasn’t convinced of its staying power. I also looked at the BRIMNES which is a pretty smart concept. It’s a daybed / single bed / double bed / bedroom storage in one and includes two mattresses and two drawers. However, upon further inspection I noticed that the included mattresses aren’t standard thickness. Plus, we sometimes bring the boys’ trundle out into the living room for sleepovers and that isn’t possible with the BRIMNES. I couldn’t see paying $600 for something that didn’t check all the boxes so I nixed it.

That’s when the search really intensified. Ha! I searched craigslist and ebay for vintage beds but everything was too expensive, too ornate and / or didn’t offer a trundle option. I considered daybeds with trundles but I wasn’t excited about anything in my price range (<$500) which most likely meant I wouldn’t like them a few years from now. I stopped looking for a while. Then I started back up again just a few days ago and found this crazy affordable trundle ensemble. I know what you’re thinking.

WHAT IS SHE THINKING?! SHE ISN’T. SHE ISN’T THINKING! SHE’S FINALLY GONE MAD. IT’S ONLY A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE SHE QUITS BLOGGING. THANK GOODNESS AND GOOD RIDDANCE.

But wait a minute. Hear me out. Forget about all that brown for a minute. Take away the espresso finish and the really bad styling. (Is that a beige microfiber comforter?) Yes, the headboard and footboard are slatted but at least they’re relatively wide slats. Now click on the “natural” option. Things just got a little better, didn’t they? Now imagine the “natural” frame painted in a modern shade of olive green. Lose the country knobs on the trundle. Replace them with elongated brass pulls. Do you see it? Let me help you.

DIY big girl bed

Now look at the price. Subtract $10. Did you get $283.95? Great. You win another cup of coffee. Or wine. Go ahead. Pour yourself a second round. I’ll wait. UPDATE: The price has increased since this post was originally published. Grrrr. But it’s still pretty affordable.

Good? Good. Let’s continue.

So, yeah, I bought that bed + trundle setup for $283.95 thanks to a $10 credit on my Wayfair account. (You can earn store credit for leaving reviews on past purchases.) It checked all the boxes. Twin size. Pull-out trundle. No ornate frills. No commas on the price tag. I’ll actually be able to afford mattresses to go with it. Imagine that! The fact that it’s made of solid wood and can be converted to a bunk (with the purchase of another twin) are just bonuses. And with a fresh coat of paint and some killer hardware, it’s going to look way less vacation rental…especially against light walls…maybe some fun wallpaper? I won’t finalize the paint color and exact hardware until after the bed arrives so I can see how things shake out in person, but I’m diggin’ the olive + brass combo. Mabrey is stoked and so am I.

I bookmarked the first image in this post years ago as inspiration for a child’s room and it’s stuck with me. I’ll be loosely referring to it for Mabrey’s big girl room. More details soon!

Here’s to no diapers (cloth or disposable) in my house!

P.S. – A crib review & transitioning from crib to toddler bed.

images: 1) Reath Design 2) Dana Miller for House*Tweaking