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01.18.11 / I Wrote A Letter

There’s a vacant one room school house that I pass on my way to work.  I’m enchanted by it. Maybe it has something to do with my love of school as a child or the fact that I wanted to be Laura Ingalls Wilder in Little House on the Prairie. {Once, I asked for and received a long skirt and shoes with wooden soles to role play in my tree house.  I liked the way my shoes sounded on the wood floor boards and gravel driveway.} Having lived in a 3-bedroom, 1-bath barn/home with my parents and 3 younger siblings for most of my life, I’ve always been fascinated by small spaces that work hard.  {That’s probably how our mini mudroom came about.}  There’s just something about using every square inch of living space to its full potential that feels good to me.  Sure, a room can look like a million bucks, but if it lacks function and ease then it’s not a room I feel comfortable in.  And I’m not talking about filling every square inch of space with stuff but rather making it useful.  {Empty spaces for walking, playing and letting the room breathe are very important.} So, I have a crush on this old one room school house.

I mentioned it to my grandpa the last time he visited us from Florida.  You should know that my grandpa knows everything there is to know about houses.  {My dad comes in a close second.} He’s built I-don’t-know-how-many with his own 2 hands {including some of my childhood homes}, and if Handy Hubby and I ever have questions about doing something house-related, we ask him. When I told my grandpa about the school house, he suggested I look up the property on the county auditor’s website.  Did you ever know such a thing existed?  It’s great.  It gives all sorts of information on the land and any buildings on the land…owner, age of building{s}, map, lot size, sales history, tax info, etc.  From the information provided on the auditor’s site, I discovered the owners lived on the land right next to the school house.  I instantly wanted to contact them, but I was afraid of scaring them.  After several weeks of contemplation, I finally wrote a letter.  I told them a little about myself and how their little school house had struck a chord with me. I asked them to contact me anytime in the way they felt most comfortable and gave my email, address, and phone number.  I was curious about the building:  was it a family heirloom?  had anyone they’d known attended school there?  what did they use it for?  what does it look like inside?  has it ever been lived in?  any particularly interesting stories about it?  That was about 3 weeks ago.  I haven’t heard back.  They probably think I’m some crazy lady, but I’m glad I wrote a letter.  Otherwise, I’d wonder all the time about what if I had written a letter.

What about you?  Is there a home in your area that you find yourself daydreaming about?  Did you know about the auditor website thing?  Share!

images: Warren County Historical Society

13 Comments

18.January.2011

I’m so glad you wrote that letter. The “what ifs” always kill me otherwise. Please keep us posted if you hear anything. Now you have my curiosity piqued as well.

There is this great farm house with attached barn (swoon) just down the street from where my parents live in NH. It was always my favorite house as a kid. That might have had something to do with the fact that on Halloween, the woman (the sweetest grandmother) gave out the BEST fudge I’d ever tasted [the only “unwrapped” candy we were allowed to eat]. We ended up nicknaming her “the fudge lady”. She has since passed, and the house was resold. My entire life I’ve wanted to go poke around that big, old New England house. I bet there are even secret passage ways to and from some of the rooms. Again, that maybe just my 8 year old imagination at work, but I just feel that there is magic in that house. I want to live there someday.

P.S. I begged (and received) a pair of wooden cloggs when I was just a wee lass. I too loved the clunking sound of wood on wood.

18.January.2011

I love the county web site. It’s how we know our neighbors’ names. Is that creepy? We have so many neighbors and we just couldn’t keep them all straight so now we have a little map of the neighborhood with the names of everyone from the county tax records. Shh, don’t tell them my secret :)

18.January.2011

I don’t know if this is the same thing(sounds like it), but we use the County GIS website to stalk houses and people all the time. haha. We originally used it to see more up to date aerial photos(than what google has) of the land we purchased. We’ve also looked up friends houses to see how much they paid. I know that may be crazy, but we like houses and land and knowing the values and comparing to our area. All this information is public record. You can find out the year a house was built, sq. footage, current resident, lot size, tax value, ect. Or just type the person’s name and it will tell you the property they own(more effective than “whitepages” where most people are unlisted). Just google “_______ county gis” and look for an interactive map. Some county websites are much more user friendly than others.

18.January.2011

oh, yes,I’m a little obsessed with the auditor’s website. I found names carved in our magnolia tree, and looked up the transfer history to see if I could figure out who the lovebirds were!

http://buckcanuck.blogspot.com/2010/08/sweet-mystery.html

for potential homebuyers, it’s a great way to look for proper building permits, that taxes are up to date, etc.

18.January.2011

Allison – Thanks for the info!

18.January.2011

I love that you did that!

18.January.2011

Okay, now I feel bad… When we first moved into our house a woman wrote us a letter and stuck it under our front door. She asked if the house was still for sale or we were interested in selling it to her and she included her telephone number. There was something about the way it was written that felt strange to me and we ignored it. Now I feel like we should have at least acknowledged her…

18.January.2011

Do not feel bad. As my cousin would tell you, she “lusted” after a home in her neighborhood, dropping notes in the elderly man’s mailbox that if he should ever sell…. Yes, she’s a gutsy gal, but she lives there now and it’s beautiful.

21.January.2011

I see that site is in Warren County Ohio, I am in Marysville, Ohio…. there are sooo many quaint houses in the area that I often wish I could tour…in fact my in-laws got their home because my MOL knocked on the door and told the owners, “if you ever plan to sell…here is my #” 5 years later…it was theirs!
I am new to your blog, but I am in a new build home, trying to make it “not cookie cutter”… it is a challenge. Your house looks great, Keep up the good work!

21.January.2011

I am a social worker for older adults in three very rural counties of Kentucky. I drive past so many beautiful and quant abandoned buildings and homes throughout my days on the road. I always feel a little nostalgic and sad as I see so many destroyed and unkempt. I always daydream of who lived there…who worked there….who put all of their hard work, time, sweat and love into this building…and now who lets it just sit there with no life or love inside? I know I put too much thought into it, but I hate to see so many empty buildings and homes that have so much potential.

22.January.2011

I’ve always wanted to see the inside of the house my grandfather built and where my mother lived. My mother is no longer living, but I dream of writing the owners a letter (I would get their name from the county website)
and asking if I could see the inside sometime when I am in town. I have some old mail addressed to my mother at the house to prove she actually lived there. I’ve never followed through on this and wonder what they would think–probably that I was some crazy lady.

22.January.2011

I can appreciate your boldness! For my wedding in June of 09, I desperately wanted my reception in an old barn. There was an older house with a beautiful barn that my family had always loved in a nearby town. (My parents thought it would make a great place for a Bed and Breakfast.) After searching for “the perfect spot” I was left empty handed. My dad and I drove by the house as I wrote the address down from the mailbox. (Oh, how I love google maps now!)
Eventually, I wrote a letter to this unknown person and waited for a response. A few weeks later an older women emailed me about the history of the barn and how it was the pride and joy of her deceased husband. She said it wasn’t in condition to host a wedding nor was she ready to clean out all the memories. I was touched by her words and overjoyed that I even got a response. Best of luck to you, you just never know….

27.January.2011

I have to tell you, your story really resonated with me because I actually attended a one-room schoolhouse as a child (and, by the way, I am not ancient — only 32). I absolutely LOVED it. My teacher was Mrs. Thomas, and she was a second mom to all eight of us. Yep, there were eight students in the entire school when we first went there, although later there were more. My brother and I bumped it up to that number when we moved in. Crazy, huh? But I remember some of the best lessons learned in that little classroom — what a cow’s eyeball looks like on the inside, not to cheat (that was an ugly moment), and how to say goodbye to the baby mice that got into the rat poison. One day I will always remember was when she asked us never, ever to do drugs, because it was bad for us and she only wanted what was best for us. She really loved us, and I will never forget feeling responsible for not letting her down. That’s really the lesson she taught us all — that we were important people to her and that she loved us.