...because home doesn't happen overnight.

Last week we surprised the boys {and Mabrey too but I doubt she had a clue} with a staycation. HH took Wednesday, Thursday and Friday off from work so we had a 5-day weekend all together.

Monday I scrubbed down and swept up the house. Tuesday I ran my errands for the week, got groceries and finished up all the dirty laundry. That left the rest of the week open for me to fully enjoy the staycation. I had this card waiting on the kitchen island for the boys Wednesday morning. Layne read the card aloud to Everett. They were ecstatic. Everett kept saying, ‘We’re on stay-buh-cation!’ What was on the fridge, you ask?

Why the schedule, of course. {HH purposefully overused the exclamation point. Everything’s more fun with an exclamation point! The more, the better!!!!!!!} HH and I decided it would be much easier for us to plan the staycation ahead of time instead of asking Layne and Everett what they wanted to do each morning. Early on in the summer, I had both boys make a list of things they’d like to do this summer. We picked many of them to do over the staycation. It made us feel not so bad about saying no to vacationing in New Zealand or Hawaii – both of which were on their want lists. Sorry, guys. Remember we just had a baby and mama quit her job?

Here are some pics from our adventures. I didn’t take as many as I would have liked but maybe that was a good thing. I was fully focused on our family instead of getting the perfect shot. It was nice.

We were so proud of the kids at the water park. Layne passed the swimming test which required swimming a full length of the pool and then treading water for one minute. He got a green wristband deeming him capable of swimming without a parent. He wore it with pride. He swam in every pool, rode every water slide. Even the really tall one that HH and I were a little skeered of. Everett wanted to do everything. No fear in that kid. Sadly, he wasn’t tall enough for the slides. Mabrey enjoyed the baby pool, some nude sunbathing and even a nap. She did so great.

On ‘make your own sundae’ night, we went dairy free. Chocolate frozen dessert {made from coconut milk} + blended frozen strawberries {oops!} bananas + a few dollops of Trader Joe’s Cookie Butter + sliced strawberries = dairy free heaven. The boys didn’t even notice it wasn’t a real sundae. Neither did I.

We hit up the local BMX track so Layne and Everett could ride their bikes. At first, HH had to help them over some of the steeper hills but by the end of our visit both of them were completing the track on their own. It was crazy hot that day but the heat didn’t stop them from riding for an hour plus. They were dirty and sweaty afterwards. Just how boys should be. Mabrey and I watched and cheered them on from the air-conditioned car. HH took his shirt off at one point and I was reminded that I have a pretty hot hubby.

At Scene 75 {basically a huge indoor arcade/small indoor amusement park}, once again, someone was too small to ride. This time it was the spinning bumper cars. {HH is in the background top right in the blue t-shirt looking over at Everett on the sidelines.} Maybe next year kiddo. I discovered why I never hang out in arcades. They’re loud, obnoxious, ugly, dirty, ADD-inducing and a waste of money. Not my cup of tea. But the boys had fun and that’s all that mattered.

Other non-stay-buh-cation-related events happened as well.

Mabrey turned four months old. When she’s laid onto her back, she immediately rolls to her belly now. Then gets mad after a few minutes because she can’t figure out how to roll back. She’s sporting a nice bald spot. The girl rubs her head back-and-forth when she sleeps. I keep finding stray hairs in her crib.

Everett’s love of costumes has reached an all new high. Like home decor, he prefers a mixed aesthetic as opposed to the matchy-matchy look. I call this his karate-pirate-ninja-surgeon look. He’s totally serious too. The headband, face mask and belt had to be put on just so. And I had to hold him up to look in the bathroom mirror at his reflection to which he stated, ‘perfect.’

I just realized I didn’t get a good pic of Layne! That’s probably because he’s too old, too cool for his mama to take pictures of. Just today he let the dentist know he is too old for stickers.

Or he’s always twenty steps ahead of me. I’m usually lagging {I just had to ask HH what word I was thinking of for that…for some reason ‘lacking’ was coming to mind but I knew that wasn’t it…before I could explain my ‘what word am I thinking of?’ question, HH quickly answered ‘penis!’ He’s not your typical engineer. He has a good sense of humor.} okay, where was I? Oh, yes. I’m usually lagging {not penis} behind with Mabrey in tow. I can’t keep up with those boys. Good thing school starts next week.

HH and I enjoy surprises if you haven’t noticed. {Hello. #3 is a girl! Still can’t get over that one.} Surprising the kids with a stay-buh-cation made it more fun. Have you ever tried a staycation before? Or a surprise one at that? They are the epitome of DIY vacations. Am I right?

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images: Dana Miller for House*Tweaking

43 Comments

08.August.2012

What a great/sweet idea to make a staycation something special. They will remember this forever.

09.August.2012

How fun! Sounds like a great staycation :)

I love the staycation, and you guys did it right with the schedule. I agree, they will remember this just as much as a trip to New Zealand or Hawaii.

09.August.2012

cannot stop laughing! i had to read it out loud to my husband. he would have said the same thing to me. be blessed :)

09.August.2012

What an awesome idea! I’ve heard good things about Scene 75, but haven’t had the chance to visit yet!

09.August.2012

De-lurking to say – Absolutely love the fact they wanted to come to New Zealand for their holiday. Sounds like you had a fabulous staycation.

09.August.2012

Good for you, Millers ! Sounds like a lot of fun !!

09.August.2012

Looks like you guys had a fantastic time!

My husband and I actually had a stay-at-home honeymoon. After paying for the wedding, we couldn’t afford a trip. So we went to a Reds game, the zoo, the Newport Aquarium, etc. I think Mammoth Cave wasn’t the longest trip we made. It turned out to be good we didn’t try to extend ourselves financially – a week before the wedding, the hubs very old car finally died and we had to shell out a down payment for a new one. On Labor Day. What fun. ;)

09.August.2012

Hi Dana,

Thanks for posting something a little more personal (and fun!). I really enjoyed reading it. Great photos, too!

09.August.2012

Haven’t tried it, but great idea and cute post. :)

09.August.2012

What a hoot! Sounds like HH has been hanging around some pre-pubescent boys. (Trying not to use too many exclamation marks).

09.August.2012

Looks like a fun-filled five days. I’m sure the kids LOVED having both mama and dada around for lots of love and attention.

09.August.2012

love your blog… you are beautiful and talented. your children and husband are gorgeous… love your new home and good for you for downsizing to something affordable.. Best of luck! xo Patty

09.August.2012

I didn’t realize you were so close to Huber. That’s where my husband’s family is from :)

09.August.2012

We are doing a stay-cation at the end of the month. We recently celebrated our boys’ adoption day at one of those arcades. I agree – they are awful! The boys (including my husband) loved it but I couldn’t wait to get out of there. Somehow, my seven-month old was able to sleep with all the lights and noise.

09.August.2012

HH works in Huber!

09.August.2012

HH travels to New Zealand usually once a year for business. He’s yet to take any of us with him yet. Would love to visit!

09.August.2012

Love the idea of the posted schedule, especially the posted at-home ideas. I’ve done stacations in the past and it’s very easy to lose some of the fun of it. Great ideas especially the watching the stars night.

09.August.2012

I heart cookie butter. I’m sending some home to my brother in a package because Canada doesn’t have Trader Joe’s.

09.August.2012

My family is all from that area of Ohio! My aunt actually lives in Huber Heights as well and the rest of my family live in Darke Co. Sounds like you had a great week!

09.August.2012

Okay, so the stay-cation was a great idea with all the fun plans but what makes me seriously chuckle is your hubby’s comment! My hubby is an engineer too and would have said the EXACT. SAME. THING! In fact, he has said that to me… HA! Gotta love a funny hubby!

09.August.2012

Looks like it was a fun Staycation! I’ve been curious for a little while now… how do you pronounce Mabrey? Is it May-bree? or is it Mah-bree or Mahb-ree? It’s a pretty name! :)

Sounds like fun! I just had to add that your delicious coconut milk sundae is absolutely ‘real’! It’s what I’ve been making (in our beloved cuisinart ice cream maker) and serving my family for years- we have 4 kids with allergies to dairy, gluten, soy, citrus and one who doesn’t tolerate sugar or any fruit (because of the natural sugar in them)! Luckily she processes honey ok and it is a fantastic sweetener for coconut milk ice cream! Another fun thing we do is fill ice cube trays with canned Native Harvest coconut milk and use the cubes (added to coconut milk in the vac pac containers + fruit or whatever else you want) to make tons of fun creamy drinks/smoothies in the blender. We’re so lucky to have some great pre-made allergy free desserts and foods out there these days- My girls are 9-18 so I started nursing and feeding allergic kids back in the days when I had to make absolutely everything from scratch! Love seeing your sweet Mabrey so happy- good for you for putting the pieces together and switching this up to make her comfortable!

09.August.2012

what an awesome pair of parents you two are! and i love, love, LOVE that you both planned it all out, with the card-invite and schedule on the fridge and all. total perfection. your little ones (and big boy layne, of course!) are lucky to have you. :)

09.August.2012

You. Are. The. Woman. I can’t imagine how much time you spent making allergy free food from scratch for 4 kids!!

09.August.2012

MAY-bree. Like ‘maybe’ but with an ‘r’ between the ‘b’ and ‘e’.

09.August.2012

HH got home from work tonight and said ‘I can’t believe you put that in your post!’ I think he was a little embarrassed. But I think it’s funny not vulgar. Gotta keep some laughter in the house!

09.August.2012

It’s my new favorite spread to put on everything!

Oh, Ha! Thanks! I still make most things from scratch (ice cream included!) partly because my kids like it best (xo) and partly due to their unusual variety of allergies. The girls (yes I got 4 of them- lucky me!) are learning to make a lot of things for themselves now, too. The funniest part of it is that the one and only thing I dislike about parenting is – you guessed it- cooking! If left to my own devices I’d happily subsist on fresh goat cheese, popcorn and avocado! Pure Love, that’s how I do it :) I just love that they are all so healthy and happy! Take Care!

09.August.2012

LOVE staycations! They are a great alternative to traveling out of town, and it’s just fun acting like tourists :) Looks like you all had a great time.

09.August.2012

Brilliant idea! I love staycations… you still get all the fun parts of a vacation without out all the hard ones- living out of hotels, suitcases, etc. Glad you all had a blast!

09.August.2012

Whoa.. I don’t think I realized where you guys lived!!! I am from Kettering (now in Columbus). In college the first time i lived directly across the street from WPAFB museum! :)

/random yays

09.August.2012

Such a fun idea! We live in huber heights:) my husband works at wpafb:) and we love the YMCA huber water park and scene 75:) We might run into each other sometime:)

I love this Staycation idea! I’m pregnant with my first baby & might have to copy this in the future. Looks like your staycation turned out great.

Your karate-pirate-ninja-surgeon made me laugh so much I showed it to my husband. (“Perfect.”) We were picturing your son yelling, “Clear!” followed by a serious karate chop.

Love your blog! Just figured out from your impressive stay-cation list that you are in an area familiar to me, as a former USAF brat and a Wright State grad. : )

10.August.2012

Engineers are not alone… You can add a police sergeant to that list! Ha ha ha

You are such a great mama!!!! Your kiddos will cherish those memories forever. I still talk about when my mom did stuff like this for us.

10.August.2012

Gee whiz, Dana, I never knew we were practically neighbors! My sister in Texas turned me on to your great site and I guess I never paid close attention to your location. Your staycation hit upon some of my favorites. I almost stopped at Kirklands (VOA Park, I assume) Monday, but had to hightail it back to Centerville to get the kids at park camp. After seeing your photos, I think I’ll have to get there next week after school starts.

12.August.2012

Lol! Love the costume! Hilarious!

13.August.2012

Looks like you had a sweet ending to your summer! What lucky little boys (well, Mabrey too)! I heard studio 75 was more for big kids so I’m glad we didn’t waste the trip. My kids really love magic castle and chuck e cheese though (but only during the day when it’s empty). We have not tried the bmx track, but my kids would love it! We’re still hoping to hit up cosi and Dayton art museum before heading back to school!

14.August.2012

What a small world! I’ve been reading your blog for months and never realized we lived in the same area! I moved to Texas pretty recently after I got married. Aw..This post made me miss home.

15.August.2012

This is such a cute post. Love that you thought about what to do with your kids everyday.

16.August.2012

What a sweet idea!! I’m sure your kiddos loved. I’ll remember this for one day down the road… too cute!