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*THIS GIVEAWAY IS NOW CLOSED.*

Congrats to Carrie who is eyeing some ballet flats!

Post title runner-up: The One Where I Have a Midlife Shoe Crisis in Front of My Elderly Garage Door (I thought it was too wordy.)

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I don’t know why but I’ve had the urge to dress a bit edgier recently. It’s not so much about following a trend but has everything to do with the desire to try something different. It all started with a new pair of black jeggings. Once I discovered how comfortable and versatile they are, I’ve been wanting to wear them every day. (Luckily, our summer has been relatively mild. I’m one of those people who chills easily at the slightest breeze and in air-conditioned spaces so wearing jeans midsummer is completely reasonable to me.)

My only problem was that I didn’t own a pair of shoes that looked right with black jeans. I have mostly nude and saddle leather sandals for summer. I’m short and one trick I’ve learned to appear taller is to match my shoes to my bare legs / pants. That way my feet, ankles and legs are one continuous line of color which gives the illusion of longer legs. I needed black kicks!

That’s where ShoeMint comes in. The free, members-only website stays on top of what’s hot in the shoe arena so busy moms like me don’t have to. Inventory is updated monthly based on current trends. Whether you’re in need of something classic or runway-esque, you’re guaranteed to find high-end, high quality options. Refined materials – such as leather and suede – abound and shipping & returns are always free.

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I found the perfect black ankle boot for summer. It’s the Dahlia and it’s part of the exclusive collection designed by ShoeMint’s co-founders, Rachel Bilson & Nicole Chavez. The perforated suede allows for plenty of ventilation and gives the boot a sexy peekaboo vibe. Gold buckles round out the edgy look. A modest 2″ heel is enough to give my (lack of) height a boost but easily walkable. I have never in my life owned such provocative shoes. They are surprisingly comfortable and I genuinely LOVE them. Who knew switching up your footwear midlife could be so fun?!

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Another little trick I’ve learned to appear taller is to show some skin up top. (Not to be confused with going topless.) It doesn’t have to be a cleavage fest. Although, if you have it by all means flaunt it and I hate you. Just kidding – about the hate part not the flaunt part. For me, bare shoulders and a swooping neckline do the trick. I’m particularly fond of sleeveless tops with racerback detailing. Pulling my hair up into a high ponytail puts my shoulders front and center and keeps me cool, too.

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I also find it helpful to draw the eye up with a brightly colored / patterned top and an interesting necklace. I prefer flowy, loose-fitting tops that fall below my natural waistline. Ironically, the wood bead necklace I’m wearing here was a purchase from our current home’s estate sale.

In summary, I’m the Jon Stewart of DIY blogs. If you met me in real life, a warranted reaction would be “I thought you’d be taller.” In case you missed ’em, my tricks for dressing taller:

*Wear shoes similar in color to your bare legs / pants. This creates the illusion of longer legs.

*Get a boost with a little heel action. An additional one or two inches can make all the difference.

*Show some skin up top. (But keep your shirt on, folks.) Bare shoulders or a low-slung neckline visually lengthen short torsos and necks.

*Draw the eye up with interesting colors, patterns and / or jewelry. Keep your bottom half mostly solid in color then add a fun top and necklace to draw attention to your upper half.

And just like that you’re 6′ tall! Haha.

 

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But enough small talk. Whether you’re 5’2″ or 6’2″, ShoeMint is graciously offering up a new pair of kicks to one lucky reader. See entry details below.

PRIZE: one pair of shoes from ShoeMint (retail value $70-$150). The choice is yours!

RULES: You must be at least 18 years old and have a shipping address (no P.O. boxes please) within the U.S. or Canada. One entry per email address.

TO ENTER: Sign up for ShoeMint here. (It’s completely free and there’s no obligation to buy.) Browse the selection then leave a comment on this post sharing your favorite pair of ShoeMint shoes.

DEADLINE: Enter before Sunday, July 13th at 9:00 p.m. EST. One random winner will be announced Monday, July 14th.

BUT, WAIT!, THERE’S MORE: Score $40 off your first pair of shoes by clicking here. Enjoy!

This post is sponsored in part by ShoeMint. All content, clothing, short jokes and images are my own. I do NOT earn commission on purchases made via the links above. Thank you for supporting the brands that support this blog.

I’d love to hear any tips you have for dressing taller. I’ve tried dressing in a single, solid color from top to bottom but found it yawn-inducing. On a side note, the crumbling, weed-riddled driveway is getting ripped out this week. Ahhhhh!!!!!

UPDATE: Due to popular demand, sources for my entire outfit:

*racerback tank – Juniors Eyelash, Kohl’s

*hoop earrings – vintage

*wood bead necklace – vintage

*black jeggings – SO, Kohl’s

*mesh ankle boots – ShoeMint

images: Dana Miller for House*Tweaking

189 Comments

09.July.2014

LOVE this look on you – maybe I’m missing the link but can’t find a source for your top – love it – can you share a link? Racer back tops are soo cute.

09.July.2014

Nice look! I love the Karina flats. Nothing like a pointy toe to dress up a pair of flats!

09.July.2014

SAme here — that top! i love it! can you share a link!

09.July.2014

ShoeMint has adorable shoes. I’ve yet to pull the trigger and buy any. This look is adorable on you!

Even though it’s summer, I’m seriously crushing on the Simone bootie!

09.July.2014

I love the Karina flats in black!

09.July.2014

Great giveaway! Thank you! I like the Simone ankle boots a lot!

09.July.2014

those Shutz Nadely’s are killer!!!

09.July.2014

YAY! I love the simone ankle boots!

09.July.2014

Love your tips- and seeing fun style posts on your blog. You always inspire me to be a little more adventurous than I might be on my own. As for ShoeMint, the Irene wedge has a classic summer look, but I love it in a bold coral/red!!

09.July.2014

I like the Irene!

09.July.2014

Browsed through the shoe site, some serious beauties!

09.July.2014

Liz kind of took the air out of my sail, but I’d also pick the Karina flats in black — I am in NEED of some new flats for work this summer :)

09.July.2014

Oooh. I like the Matiko Greta Wedge!

09.July.2014

Love the Matiko Ursina Wedge!

09.July.2014

I love the Alexandra boots, can’t choose a color!

09.July.2014

There are so many that I like, it is hard to choose. I like the Evalyn sandal, the classic pump in the black and white leopard print, the Marissa in the yellow and tan, and those Mylie boots are exactly the kind of booties I was looking for last fall!

09.July.2014

I like the Irene wedges!

09.July.2014

I’m short too and I love your advice for dressing taller! DR. SCHOLL’S THE ALANA sandals would def help me out! I’m also crushing on the red MELISSA JEAN X JASON WU III FLAT… they look like a cross between crocs and those old school jelly shoes, comfortable but unlike crocs and jelly shoes they look chic.

09.July.2014

I love your top, too!!! Love the shoes…really want the Simone ankle boots!!

09.July.2014

I also LOVE the simone ankle boot!

09.July.2014

I am liking the Violette and I too also love your top!

09.July.2014

Love the Zandra sandals!

09.July.2014

The shoes you picked are my favorite. A little heel, but not too much that I couldn’t do my job.
I also like the Jillian for a night out.

09.July.2014

I am really liking the Blaire sandals, simple but pretty.

09.July.2014

Would love any of the shoes from ShoeMint! http://www.shoemint.com/shoes/maryam?id=33194 those are cute for the summer months!

09.July.2014

i love the isla bootie. in the suede gray…sweet!

09.July.2014

I love the Analeigh!

09.July.2014

I’ve grown to embrace my 5’4″ (well, almost) frame. I used to wear heals more often, but I stick mostly to flats now. I definitely agree that a nude sandal with shorts or skirt help elongate, but I usually just wear what I feel best in, and I love for my feet to breathe. You look fab (as always) in your black jeggings and booties! Try them with a flat, and I bet you’ll look and feel just as stylish.

09.July.2014

So hard to choose! I love the Blaire sandal

09.July.2014

I’m in love with the Pheobe. Gorgeous!

09.July.2014

Love your top – source, please!

09.July.2014

LOVE the entire outfit! What brand are the jeggings? Can you provide links for the top too? Totally loving the edgy Dahlia as well as the Phoebe!

09.July.2014

I love the outfit. Who are the top and leggings by?

09.July.2014

Loving the Alexandra boot (they have fall weekends written all over them) and the Yosi Samra perforated smoking slippers for summer-into-fall work shoes. Can you tell I’m looking forward to cooler weather?

09.July.2014

ANALEIGH flat, strappy sandals that don’t go between my toes! I’ve been searching for these for a couple years.

I love everything about your outfit. It makes me so happy to see other SAHMs that haven’t given up in the style department.

09.July.2014

I’m loving the ankle boots you’ve got on. I’ve always perused ShoeMint but never pulled the trigger. It might be time.

09.July.2014

I would get the exact same boots you are wearing. The perforation is genius for summertime boots!
Love the whole look!

09.July.2014

I love the classic pointed flat in black, they would go with everything!

09.July.2014

Liking the Rhiannon (which the site recommended and are, of course, a fave) or the Hollie wedge.

09.July.2014

I would love the Simone boots. Thank you for the giveaway and great outfit!

09.July.2014

I like the Layla sandals!

09.July.2014

Great giveaway. I love your shoes. Also love the Tobi!

09.July.2014

its not normally my style, but i am so digging the Brianna heel. its so minimalist and feminine!

09.July.2014

I like them all but I love the Dahlia boots you have!

09.July.2014

I fell in love with the Karina flats! They would look good on my feet! :)

You are smokin’! And I need to know where those jeggings are from!

09.July.2014

This was a tough one. How sweet are those black Lacey sandals?!

09.July.2014

It would have to be the Stacey or the Kayra, but I love shoes that are comfy, I can walk in, and are big enough for my feet!

09.July.2014

I would also love to know the link for your top! So cute!

09.July.2014

Great Look! And yes, one gets the impression you are TALL…..how tall/or should I say short are you actually? I’m 5’2″ and I don’t recall ever looking quite as tall as you do in this picture. I am going to try some of your tips though! Thanks.

09.July.2014

Your top is so cute! Love the Marolyn sandals – perfect for summer!!

09.July.2014

I like the Aliya in blue- lucky for me- I’m not short. :)

09.July.2014

i know it’s summer, but i’m really loving the Rhiannon and Simone boots!

09.July.2014

I love the Carys heel!

09.July.2014

I like the Malinda bootie

09.July.2014

5’4″…on a good day…with shoes on ;)

09.July.2014

Can’t find a link for it but I found it at Kohl’s. I have good luck there every once in a while.

09.July.2014

I like the Alexandra boot!

09.July.2014

I like the Malinda boot!

09.July.2014

I love the classic pump in the black and white leopard print. Great giveaway!

09.July.2014

Where are the jeggings from?

09.July.2014

Love the Dahlia’s!

09.July.2014

Another person who loves your top! And from Kohls??? Super cute. Great outfit! My shoe choice is the Alexandra boot!

09.July.2014

Classic pumps, can’t go wrong there! :)

09.July.2014

Love those boots you have but I also love a good wedge so I think I would pick The Alana

09.July.2014

Just broke 2 pairs of shoes while running errands, so this could be so good.
I like their wedges and also the – Matiko and Heidi and their boots too.

09.July.2014

5’4″….well that explains it….you ARE TALL…..anyone taller than me seems really tall to me. I would love to have those 2 extra inches…..would probably save me a ton of money on alterations!
LOL Thanks!

09.July.2014

You’re so cute!! I also love the Simone ankle boots.

09.July.2014

I love the Karina flats!

09.July.2014

I’m obsessed with the versatility of the Classic Pointed Flat!

09.July.2014

i love the simone boot. it would be perfect to this fall!

09.July.2014

Vivienne Westwood Jelly Sandal in Black!

09.July.2014

Love the isla! So cute.

09.July.2014

Love the Yuna wedge in the bright blue!! I just love reading your blog!

09.July.2014

The Marolyns are adorable… and you look GREAT!

09.July.2014

I really love the Classic Pump in the nude color

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09.July.2014

Love so many but especially the Dahlia’s you’re wearing!

09.July.2014

The Analeigh sandals are really cute. My showroom was pretty hilarious, as I only ever wear flats (I’m 5’9″ and don’t want any extra height) and it has a bunch of wild stilettos. :)

09.July.2014

I am in bad need for the Classic Pump in Black.

09.July.2014

I need those Isla boots!!

09.July.2014

They sell shoes, so they are good with me! Already have three in my cart, need to pull the trigger. The classic pump, classic flat (both in nude) and the Irene in red :)

09.July.2014
09.July.2014

Dahlia for me too!!!

09.July.2014

The Karina flats are super cute.

09.July.2014

Love the Dezzie heel!

Love those jeggings! Where are they from?? And I’m mildly obsessed with the Cleo’s at ShoeMint ;) I’d definitely snag those up!

09.July.2014

Ummmm kinda crushing hard on your boots! A quick browse and yeah….the Dahlia is my top pick!

I’m with everyone else though on this – WHERE did you get that top? LOVE IT!

09.July.2014

Oh, thanks! I couldn’t find the link!

09.July.2014

What’s the brand? I’ve really been loving a lot of the clothing from Kohl’s recently!

09.July.2014

I am seriously crushing on the Sebastian shoes. They look great for summers on the run!

09.July.2014

I really like the Blaire wedge sandals: http://www.shoemint.com/shoes/blaire?id=27229. I can definitely use a little extra height!

09.July.2014

I am loving the Simone Boots! So fun!

09.July.2014

I am fixated on the ANNIEL SOFT SLIPPER – in Blue

09.July.2014

I love the Karina flats!

09.July.2014

I love the Phoebe!

09.July.2014

I love the Cleo in Light Gray for late summer and fall!! And the ones you have on are fabulous!

09.July.2014

Great boots! I love the Alexandra–they’d be awesome with leggings and a big sweater.

09.July.2014

Edgy looks great on you!!
It would be a hard toss up between the Stacey, Lacey and Jessi for me! I’m a tall girl so I love my flats!

09.July.2014

Love those Simone Ankle Boots!!

09.July.2014

I love the Blaire wedges!

09.July.2014

Great post! I agree that your top is super cute. I love the Simone in taupe. So cute!

09.July.2014

I’m loving the Simone Ankle Boots! Thanks for the giveaway!

09.July.2014

You’re so cute. CLEO would work for me.

I need some wedges to help make me taller, I like The Alana!

09.July.2014

I also am a short gal, and I love the shoes you have on. What a clever idea to use a mesh-type fabric on shoes. I thought the Kesha was cute to0 – a 3 3/4-inch heel!! I’d feel like a WNBA player in shoes that high. :)

09.July.2014

There are so many beauties!! I like the simplicity of the Matiko Greta Wedges.

09.July.2014

I love the Simone in taupe, they are so cute and perfect for fall!

09.July.2014

Rhiannon – who wouldn’t love a red bootie!

09.July.2014

I’m so torn— I’d love a pair of flats or one of Shoemint’s more funky boots– love yours!

09.July.2014

love the basic blaire wedges and the evalynn sandals

09.July.2014

I like the Andee sandals.

09.July.2014

I like the Melissa Boho heels. I also have to say that i like your complete outfit.

09.July.2014

I’m loving the Alexandra boot in brown!

09.July.2014

You are TOO cute! Love your look! I’m in the market for some booties and the ones you got are great for summer and beyond.

09.July.2014

I agree (being that I am 5-foot-nuthin’) that 5’4″ is tall, ha! I am still blown away that the Tracy Anderson DVD’s helped your body so much…I started 3 weeks ago because you blogged about them. I have never felt more confident or stronger!!! I’d love a new pair of hottie-shoes to go with my new “little, but mean” confidence!!!

09.July.2014

Love the look… I need new heels for work… the Teo would be perfect!

09.July.2014

I love the Karina flats – perfect transition from summer to spring!

Dana

09.July.2014

analeigh is my choice for the hot summer days and nights we’re having:):)

09.July.2014

I love this outfit as well! It’s amazing how different the shirt looks on their silly/awkward manikin and how much better it looks on you. I wouldn’t have recognized it.
I signed up for shoemint. I really like the Rhiannon boots. I had fun filling out their style quiz as well. I wonder if I can fill it out again in the future if my style starts to change?

09.July.2014

I’m right there with ya in the “trying to appear taller”. I really like the Hollie wedge sandals.

09.July.2014

I am digging the Gia Wedges. Need them.

09.July.2014

I really like your booties..i also love the “Hollie” wedge, so cute for summer.

09.July.2014

I would love the Simone boots. They would look great with jeggings.

09.July.2014

The Dahlia of course, any thought on starting a personal shopping business? I don’t have time to shop! Like the site though!

09.July.2014

The Karina flats are perfect.

09.July.2014

I really like the Alexandra boots – http://www.shoemint.com/shoes/alexandra?id=26923

09.July.2014

I am with lots of others…the Karina flat is adorable!

09.July.2014

I am on the tall side at 5’11” and it is refreshing to read how the other half lives. I did not know of Shoemint, but I am now a convert! What a great website. I love the Shiloh sandals, although I would now be taller than RuPaul, they are absolutely gorgeous and would make my legs look great. Thanx for this great giveaway! v.

09.July.2014

I really fell down the rabbit hole browsing shoemint (and jewelmint). I really dig your Dahlias, as well as the Alexandra boots.

09.July.2014

I love the Hollie wedges!

09.July.2014

You look awesome! Yay for new boots! I love the Alexandra. I’m dying for those.

09.July.2014

Love the Daria and the Corie!

09.July.2014

First of all, THANK YOU from a short person! Also, another HUGE THANK YOU because I’ve been reading some mommy bloggers who are slut shaming women under the guise of having a “style” post. I really love the way you share your style without telling other people what to do with their own style. Love it love it. Thank you :)

09.July.2014

At 5′ 0″ I long ago gave up hope of “dressing tall”, instead I dress to make sure I’m not mistaken for a teenager (this actually happens a lot although I’m nearly 30)! My clothes are all quite figure-hugging and I’ve embraced low heels. Nothing will ever make me choose to suffer wearing a heel more than 2 inches high.

10.July.2014

Love the Nigel in black! Love your outfit!

10.July.2014

Great tips for us shorties…………..BTW you are no where near midlife…..way to young!

Love the Karina, Bobbie, and Nigel flats–they’d be great for work from spring through fall…and I always love a good ballet flat or smoking slipper. The Matiko May sandal, though? So cute! Not for work, sadly…
Okay, I’d try the Kaylin, or your boots, the Dahlia.

I really need to be a bit more decisive. Maybe next time.

10.July.2014

You look amazing! I’m gonna have to get some Tracey Anderson dvd’s! :)
I love the dahlia and the Rhiannon and so many more…

10.July.2014

Ooooh lala!! Loving this site. Totally perving the Annie Loose Ankle Boot. Obv love the Dahlia and I have a total crush on the Alexandra’s – both colours stunning.
Thanks for sharing this site – never heard of it.
Divine – as always brilliant recommendation x

10.July.2014

I love the Alexandra boots! Thanks for this post Dana :)

10.July.2014

Love your blog, ShoeMint and the Marissa in limelight/nude.

10.July.2014

I like the Alexandra for Fall. Thanks!

10.July.2014

You look great, Dana! Love the Karina flats. Thanks!

10.July.2014

Thanks for such a nice mix of posts on your blog. Love it. Also love the Melissa Campana Papel Ballet Flats.

10.July.2014

What a good tip! I hadn’t heard of ShoeMint before, but it is delightful! The Veronica heels (in red- because why not?) are amazing.

10.July.2014

I love the kennedi flats really cute and thanks for the tips

10.July.2014

I really like the leopard print classic pump. I have no dressing/looking taller hints, since I’m already tall (5’10.5″) I try not to draw attention to the fact I’m usually the tallest one on the room with flats haha. Good thing my husband is 6’4″ so I can still wear some big heels :)

10.July.2014

I really like your Dahlia booties and the Alexandra boots!

10.July.2014

Absolutely love the Alexandra boots!

10.July.2014

Simone in taupe. Like the dahlia too.

Kohls is always on it. I have ridiculous luck there. Totally heart that place.

10.July.2014

Love your look! I like the Laurel booties.

10.July.2014

I too would love the Dahlia booties that you have!

10.July.2014

I’ve been dying for a new pair of booties! The Dahlia booties in white are SO SO SO perfect for the summertime!

10.July.2014

I am in the market for a silver/pewter ballet flat. I would totally pick the Yosi Samra Crackled Metallic Ballet Flat. I have the opposite problem as you. I am tall and feel like when I wear heels it makes me tower over people. I prefer flats.

10.July.2014

Love the Santana, Nigel and Karina!

10.July.2014

I love the Alexandria and the Adele. I love boots!

10.July.2014

I love the Karina shoes–so cute and fun!

10.July.2014

Corie! Adorbs :)

10.July.2014

I’d probably go with either the Natalie or the Kaylin. Thanks for the giveaway!

10.July.2014

I like their MELISSA POLLEN SANDAL

10.July.2014

I love Hollie in black!

10.July.2014

When I went to purchase a pair of shoes on this website, I noticed that buy signing up as a “member” you agree to their Terms of Service stating that every month after your first purchase they will charge your credit card a $29.99 “membership fee” every month. Very cute shoes, but that’s a little shady for my taste. Glad I saw it before I completed my purchase.

10.July.2014

the Karina Flats!

10.July.2014

Love the Laurel!

10.July.2014

I love the Jaslyn in camel!

10.July.2014

Good tips! I’m 5’4 also but always thought you were around 5’8! Good to know….I feel much better now! Ha!

10.July.2014

What a great giveaway! I am such a shoe fiend…I am currently lusting over the zandra, faith, the classic pump, the karina, the dahlia, the jillian, the simone, the rhiannon…but the phoebe, the melissa virtue/jason wu smoking slipper might be my favs!

10.July.2014

Lots of great shoes, but I’m dying for those Simone ankle boots in black!

11.July.2014

The Karina flat with the two tone pop of blue is awesome!

11.July.2014

It’s a toss-up between your Dahlias and the Simones….love them both! And I scrolled through to see if you included a link/brand for those jeggings but I don’t see one. I’m always on the hunt for the perfect pair, and yours look amazing! Do you have a source for those??

11.July.2014

I’m really digging the Alana wedge. Cute for spring, summer, or fall.

11.July.2014

Great tips! I’m super tiny and I definitely am going to use some of these tips. I visited shoe mint and my favorite shoe is Trista, in black. That golden plate in the heel is such a plus!

11.July.2014

You look great!! Your arms are really the star.
Also, I love the Melissa Boho Heel. I like when the foot is enclosed, but not quite.

11.July.2014

I’m loving the karina flats and the kody oxfords. But I’m sure I could find many more that should live at my house.
Also, thanks for the dressing tall tips. I’m barely 5 feet tall but I just can’t wear heels all the time.

11.July.2014

I’m digging the Veronica.

11.July.2014

Loving the edgy look! And I’m also loving the Laurel ankle boots – the open sides are perfect.

12.July.2014

I’m lovin’ those Dahlias!

12.July.2014

I love the Adelle boots — perfect for fall!

12.July.2014

Thanks for thet chance to win! While I liked the shoes recommended to me, I keep coming back to your Dhalias! Love the shoes *you*have on! I adore ankle boots,& perforated ones are genius for summertime. Sorry, I have no advice on how to appear taller.Personally, I’ve always been “the tall girl” since as early as I can remember. I was teased about it during grade school& M.S.,& as a result, equated being feminine with being petite for YEARS! By the end of H.S., I embraced my height,&eventually wore any shoe, no matter the heal. Even if I was taller than men at times!=^_^*=

12.July.2014

Thank you for bringing this to my attention!

I contacted the peeps at ShoeMint about this since I wasn’t aware of any membership fee. Here’s the reply I received:

Basically, when you make your first purchase, you will be scheduled to get charged a flat fee every month. But there is never any obligation to buy, so you can go into your account and choose to “skip the month” before the 5th of every month, free of charge. Even if you forget to skip the month, the charge will be credited to your account for your next purchase. If you only want to make a one time purchase, you can just cancel your membership after the first purchase.

I hope that helps! And THANK YOU for reading the Terms of Service and commenting.

12.July.2014

matiko ursina wedge – I desperately need a casual, comfy black sandal and this one fits the bill.

I need shoes for a wedding in September and the Virginia heels would be perfect!

13.July.2014

It’s a tie… The Melissa Papal ballet flats or the superga cotu classics in green.

13.July.2014

Love your look. The Laura heels in Woodrose really caught my eye.

13.July.2014

Love your look you’re rocking, love the Alexandra boot!

13.July.2014

I love the Viollete bootie in nude.

14.July.2014

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17.July.2014

Loving the new tank top you showed off in your recent post. Mine arrived today and i’m just wondering how many wanna-be look-alikes you now have roaming out there?! :) At first was wondering about how you deal with the bra with the sheer back, but a nude racer back did the trick fairly well.