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meal prep

I have fond memories of my mom cooking in the kitchen. She could quickly scan the contents of the fridge and pantry and whip up a homemade meal based on her inventory. When she bought groceries, she planned meals on the spot according to what was on sale that week. All with a smile on her face and four kids in tow. Sadly, I did not inherit my mom’s culinary skills.

These days I cook frequently and I’m actually a decent cook, but cooking didn’t come naturally and it wasn’t an innately joyful experience for me right from the start. However, over the years, I’ve come to enjoy it. (!) Here are a few things that make cooking more enjoyable for me.

meal plan

Planning ahead. By 5:00 p.m. my brain is fried and my patience tank is nearly drained. It’s much easier for me to start dinner prep when I know what I’m making and when I have all ingredients on hand. Having to put meal prep on hold (or cancel it all together) to hunt down a missing ingredient is THE WORST. So once a week I glance at our family calendar, plan seven to eight dinners and make a grocery list. Every week is different. When things are running smoothly (rarely!), I plan an entire week of homemade meals. Other times, I pencil in Chipotle when Mabrey’s ballet class runs close to dinnertime. In my book, planning a meal out is still meal planning!

When it comes to grocery shopping, I like to tackle it the same day each week. For me, that’s Wednesday. The boys are in school, the stores are well stocked and I avoid the weekend crowd. (When I was working second shift as a pharmacist, I would shop for groceries at a 24-hour store once a week after my shift was over to avoid crowds and make it a kid-free errand.) If someone is sick or our schedule is unexpectedly thrown off and I’m not able to get to the store, there is a local grocer that offers curbside pickup. I put in an online order and Steve picks it up on his way home from work. The few times I’ve done this, it’s been a lifesaver.

For weeks when I anticipate total chaos (like when Steve is traveling and I’m flying solo), I set up a Blue Apron delivery. I’m able to select which meals I want to try and get fresh ingredients in exact proportions delivered right to my doorstep in a refrigerated box. Typically, I order two dinners from the family plan. It might not sound like much, but subtracting two dinners from my weekly meal planning helps tremendously. That’s two fewer meals I have to think about. Blue Apron is great for week-long vacations, too. (Just remember to change your delivery address before and after vacation!) I have it delivered to our destination at the beginning of vacation. It gives us a chance to get our bearings and hunt down a local grocer if necessary. I supplement with food I bring from home, and we always like to try out local restaurants as well.

meal plan 2

Crowd-pleasers. Finding a meal that checks all the boxes for five people can be challenging, but, when I know I’m making something everyone will eat sans complaints, it makes my job more enjoyable. Oftentimes, I get stuck making the same things over and over. When I’m in a rut, I bust out Blue Apron recipes that I’ve tried in the past with success and recreate them with store-bought ingredients. I keep recipe cards of our favorite meals in a magazine file at the kitchen desk for reference, and sometimes I browse the online cookbook. To this day, our favorite family meal is the first one we tried!

scanpan

The right tools. For me, that means quality over quantity. I’d rather invest in one really good, versatile piece that I use on a daily basis than a dozen meh things with very specific purposes that I use maybe once a year. Over the long run, buying this way usually costs less. I recently replaced a cheap, nonstick pan we bought over ten years ago. Ironically, everything stuck to the pan and I found myself mumbling four-letter words under my breath every time I used it. Cleanup was a disaster requiring extensive scrubbing even after a long soak. I invested in a Scanpan from Blue Apron’s market and, oh my word!, it’s a game changer. It produces flawless dippy eggs (a.k.a. eggs over easy) and is a cinch to clean. It’s also nice to know that a bunch of toxic chemicals aren’t leaching into our food.

coconut oil

crowd pleaser 3

Here are a few more kitchen items that I use on a regular basis which make cooking easier and more enjoyable for me: a gas range (so fast! so efficient!), non-drip oil and vinegar cruets (they also make great wedding and housewarming gifts), easily accessible spice jarsa wooden spoon rest (I broke no less than three ceramic ones before investing in a robust wooden one), coconut oil in a mason jar on an open shelf (I keep an oversize bulk jar in the cabinet and refill the mason jar as needed), stainless steel measuring spoons and cups, a vegetable knife (the 365+ knife line from IKEA is surprisingly awesome), a large cutting board and a multipurpose set of ramekins (I use them as ingredient, snack, dessert and dip bowls).

ginger peel

On a different note, I detest using a peeler. I grew up watching my mom and grandma peel fruit and veggies with a paring knife and that’s how I like to do it. Although, did you know the easiest way to peel ginger is with a spoon? That’s one of the many little tricks I’ve picked up from Blue Apron over the years.

tidy kitchen

trivoli radio

A soundtrack. I enjoy cooking way more when I listen to music, podcasts, TED talks or NPR. Earlier this year, I added a small radio to a corner shelf in the kitchen and it makes me ridiculously happy. It’s become part of my cooking routine. Something about having music or an audio story playing, keeps the kids calm and interested, too, which is a nice bonus.

clean as go

A tidy kitchen. When it comes to cooking, I like to start and end with a clean kitchen. Before I start prepping a meal, I quickly brainstorm my next moves so that I use the least amount of cookware possible. It should come as no surprise that many of my favorite meals to prepare are one pot recipes. (I love Blue Apron’s beef picadillo recipe just for this reason. I cheat and use microwavable rice.) I heard somewhere that the best cooks clean as they go. If that was the only criteria for culinary success, I’d maybe have a chance at becoming a world-renowned chef. Ha! When our bellies are full and the dishes are cleared and the dishwasher is humming along, now that’s my happy place. Top it off with a glass of wine and I’m on cloud nine.

Do you like cooking? Does it come to you naturally? What do you do to make it more enjoyable? Do you have a dedicated grocery shopping day? What is your favorite everyday cooking utensil? Any podcast recommendations? Also, I’ve been thinking about doing a little kitchen tour. You know, have a look in the drawers and cabinets to see how everything is laid out. Is that something you’d be interested in? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

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P.S. – An organized sink cabinet.

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images: Dana Miller for House*Tweaking

34 Comments

18.May.2016

I enjoy cooking… but not every day. Hence I am the queen of home cooked frozen ready meals. I will cook up a big batch of mince, curry, stew etc… on the weekend when I have free time. Then I freeze it in single serving portions, so I know there is always a quick heat and eat meal in the freezer. This is one of the reasons why we bought a large side by side freezer even though we are only a two person family.

18.May.2016

Love this! I would love to see how you have organized your kitchen. Cooking with music is so much better than cooking without music or with tv instead. I fully support less is more especially when it comes to kitchen stuff. I definitely need help with my spice organization though, so any advice there?

18.May.2016

I would agree with everything you mentioned here – getting to the point where you love to make dinner, especially when you walk in the door from work and you’re tired and everyone’s hungry, takes practice, but it’s worth it.

Outside of meal planning and shopping once a week (which is a critical step), the thing I NEVER skip doing, no matter the rush, is prepping everything first. It’s a game changer. The process of cooking is so much less stressful. I prep everything, take a quick picture of my countertop (this helps me keep track of what we’ve been making), and then I start cooking. And as silly as this sounds, I post those counter pictures onto instagram because I enjoy the conversation with my other friends that like to cook (and eat) – the conversation around food is always enjoyable to me, but I’ve never been someone who likes to photograph a finished meal. I’m no food stylist or photographer.

I love Blue Apron – use it every week. We do the three meal vegetarian dinners, and they work for our family of four just fine, and it simplifies the meal planning process so much. My girls try new things all the time, and we pass fruit and occasionally add a side, and have plenty of food and usually leftovers for me for lunch! Yeah!

18.May.2016

I always love looking in peoples cabinets. Sometimes other’s ideas of storage are just helpful for you to plan out your kitchen. Plus we plan on redoing our kitchen with IKEA cabinets in the future and planning the “dream” layout is much easier when you see other kitchens.

18.May.2016

Just curious to know where your cute tea kettle is from…

18.May.2016

Unrelated question, but where’s your shirt from? Thanks!

18.May.2016

I just recently got in to podcasts and I really like Happier by Gretxhen Rubin and Magic Lessons by Elizabeth Gilbert. I like their books too! There are also some regular NPR shows that you can stream like This American Life.

18.May.2016

I would love to see inside your drawers and cabinets! Kitchen organization is so important to quality of life and there’s always tips and tricks that we could learn. I’d love to know yours!! My husband and I currently cook on Sunday and live off of leftovers for three or four days then make do with what’s in our cabinets until the next big cook day. It works for now, but once we have kids I imagine much more meal planning will be in store. Thank you for sharing what has made this necessary and sometimes difficult part of life more enjoyable for you!

18.May.2016

I just picked it up from Kohl’s (juniors section) last week for $7! It is SUPER SOFT and so, so comfy. I’ve been needing/wanting a good white button-up for a long time but never could shell out big bucks for one from places like J. Crew. The minute I saw it and touched it, it was mine! Haha.

18.May.2016

Ah, I love that thing! The brand is Fino and you can find it right here.

18.May.2016

I also love listening to podcasts when cooking. I just got into Beautiful/Anonymous and the most recent one I listened to about the guy with four kids just did me in. It’s a fantastic listen.

18.May.2016

Thank you, Dana!

19.May.2016

I didn’t realize you were a leftie! My toddler is too, so I’m starting to learn how the world is a different place for lefties than for righties.

I used to think I loved to cook. I loved to read kitchen/food blogs and would pour over recipes. But then I’d be frazzled at the end of the day. Took me years to realize that I love to EAT, not to COOK. Once I accepted that, it was like a breath of fresh air. I learned to order really complicated and nuanced dishes in restaurants and keep to simple fare at home. World of a difference to my sanity and enjoyment.

I have a question about that frying pan you linked to. I’ve always avoided pans with metal handles because I’m clumsy and forgetful, so I am just sure I will forget to grab a cloth/hot pad before grabbing the handle sometime. Am I right in that a metal handle gets hot when you cook in the frying pan? I’ve long admired those kinds of pans since rubber handles can’t go in the oven, but I don’t want to increase my chances of an accident. (Obviously if you put the pan in the oven the handle would get hot, but I mean just while cooking something on the stove.) Thanks!

19.May.2016

I’d love to see inside your cabinets (just like I love snooping in peoples houses)!
I actually worked as a cook in a restaurant for a couple months and it surprised me how much easier it was to cook in my own kitchen on my own gas stove rather than a professional one.

Hot-diggity-dog! :)
I just completed my Blur Apron sign-up – thank you so much for this treat!
Also, our mattress (THANK YOU SOOOOOO MUCH!) is positively dreamy…
Ever since that 1st night since it arrived, my hasn’t been hurting like it did; my hubby & absolutely love it <3
Consider yourself hugged

19.May.2016

What a lovely post. I enjoyed reading your story and so refreshing to see your beautiful kitchen. I love it.
Have a wonderful day. Keep more of the same coming our way.

19.May.2016

I’m so happy to know you are enjoying the mattress!!!!

19.May.2016

The handle doesn’t get hot when cooking on the stovetop!

19.May.2016

For a sponsored post this is extremely informative and well written. I am not one to complain about sponsored posts- ever- but I have been known to skip over them. :) Kudos to you.

19.May.2016

I’m totally a meal planner and wouldn’t ever go to the store without a list or at minimum 2-3 recipes in mind of what I need to pick up ingredients for. I think it’s really tied to personality type. In a Meyers-Briggs seminar we used that as an example of the “judging” vs. “perceiving” types – the Js did planning before grocery shopping, and the Ps all said, “but what if something awesome is on sale and you didn’t plan to eat it that week?” (kind of like you and your mom!)

Honestly I feel like I’m your cooking twin – it’s okay, I can get into it sometimes, I clean as I go, and I enjoy it a lot more if there is a plan. We even have the exact same model of Tivoli radio (!).

19.May.2016

As a former professional chef and baker, I am not a fan of cooking at home as I prefer the familiarity and controlled chaos of a professional kitchen. BUT I have made it work by treating it like a job -menus planned, shopping done, hair back, hands clean, kitchen clean, mise en place ready and no distractions. I try to cook/bake in stages when no one is home and then cryovac and freeze as many meals as I can in advance. Like you said patience is exhausted around meal time and everyone is hungry so we try to only finish things or do quick grills or sautes. My husband and I try to trade off cooking as he is also a chef and this works but a plan must be in place! Mise en place!

19.May.2016

Do you have someone take your photos of yourself or were these taken using a tripod? Very well set up in case it was you who clicked them. :) Esp. the flower vase and you in the background.

19.May.2016

Absolute best podcast if you haven’t listened already are the Serial podcasts. I found myself actually wanting to clean the bathroom while listening to Season 1.

Also, we are a family of five with a daddy who travels as well. Between the kids schedules, I try and plan at least 4 meals a week with a “who wants Mac and cheese” thrown in there at least one night while I make big fat salads for us. I know our go to meals with variations for each kid, but I really struggle to make grocery lists every week and find myself at the store more times than I’d like.

19.May.2016

Dana- I have a Blue Apron question for you. Every time I try to sign up, it seems like they require you register for multiple meals a week. I would like to give it a try, but I’m a total commitment phob! Do you have any advice?

19.May.2016

Don’t peel ginger. Grate it frozen.

19.May.2016

I enjoyed reading this post… I would love to see a kitchen tour… How weird is it that we like to sneak peak into other peoples kitchens!! :) but yes, do it!

19.May.2016

And closets!

19.May.2016

Never heard that before!

19.May.2016

I think the minimum order is two meals for a week. You can opt out of individual weeks at any time. My normal plan of attack is to opt out of everything then only set up orders for individual weeks as I need them. You can schedule several weeks out, but I make sure to check my account regularly so I’m not automatically set up for deliveries I don’t need.

19.May.2016

Tripod + timer!

19.May.2016

Twinsies!

19.May.2016

When I used to keep ginger in the house, I used to do that! (Fresh ginger is hard to come by where I live now. Only dried powder or as a paste in a tube available in stores.)

19.May.2016
20.May.2016

I second the radio. How do people cook without one on? Mine is always tuned to CBC. And to bring two threads of your story together, I use a ceramic ginger grater as a spoon rest!